Pray. Smile. Be Inspired. Disney. Shoes.
Okay, so having grudges on someone is not cool. Especially for your health and the relationship! It can be sooo difficult for forgive and trust me, it is not easy to forget.
I always held grudges… and well, I saw it was not ideal. Being in grad school right now and learning on better communication and the proper way to listen, I have learned that it is better to understand the reason for the grudge and hear both sides. Now, if it comes to a point that holding a grudge against someone who is truly toxic is okay. Just forgive the person, but don’t make the same mistake. Keep your heart open and live freely.
My English teacher in high school would tell us to say this whenever we had a grudge on someone: “They were hit by a bus.” Harsh. lol